Facebook is one of the biggest grounds of dating nowadays. What’s the first step that you need to attract a woman? Your Facebook profile! Believe me or not, but your profile does 35 % of your work. It also decides, supremely for the girl whether she has to talk to you or not. The three steps have already been discussed here:
Step I – Your Profile
Step II – Your Profile Picture
Step III – Your albums.
Step IV: How you talk!
This step comprises of things related to your typing style to your sense of humor, to how much you can engage a woman in talking with you. To be clear, a woman needs one chat to find that she wants to talk to you or not. She’d get interested by your profile, your style in the pictures and that would get her to chat with you, or message.
While chatting things you need to notice:
– Don’t type like Hi mY nAme iZZ bL%&@That’s just immature and stupid, except if you are talking to a 15 year old and you are yourself 13. Make sure you type like a human being who has a job which is not cleaning someone’s car outside the parkway – even if you do that, type like you don’t. I am not saying it’s ‘the most’ important thing or something, but it does have psychological implications. You don’t want to show that you are a Junkie, or dyslexic, or you have never been to college and typed a real paper on something.
– Put good status messages.
Your status message is the thing that is reaching to her, when your personal message is not. So it is a kind of more than private thing. She is reading that. Make sure it is not toilet humor or just for guys thing. And that is totally for you to decide for kind of joke is acceptable and what is not. For example: Don’t get to chauvinistic with your jokes, don’t make fun of women’s body parts, et cetera. What you can do is, if you read much, you can put good quotes from writers, nice pictures on your wall, jokes that actually are funny – stay on the neutral side rather than being too extreme on any end.
– Drag her in on your stuff.
Facebook has an amazing feature of tagging people. This way you can share with them what you do, for example: If you are a musician, you can tag her in your video, or message her your track; if you are a writer, you can write notes, and tag her in them; if you are into photography, tag; if you are a painter or into sketching, tag. It doesn’t matter if it’s your job or not. It could be your hobby too.
If you have recently added some Girl, 50% of impression lies in the above things. You don’t even have to talk to her; and this is the magic of online dating.